The Real Teachers
Her
name was Mrs. Thompson. As she stood in front of her 5th grade
class
on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie.
Like
most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved
them
all the same.
But
that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his
seat,
was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson hadwatched
Teddy
the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the
other
children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly
needed
a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got tothe point where
Mrs.
Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with
a
broad red pen, making bold X's and the F's on his papers.
At
the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review
each
child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last.However,
when
she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.Teddy's first
grade
teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He
does
his work neatly and has good manners...heis a joy to be around"
His
second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well
liked
by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a
terminal
illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His
third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death had been hard on
him.
He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much
interest
and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't
taken."
Teddy's
fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't
show
much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he
sometimes
sleeps in class."
By
now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of
herself.
She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas
presents,
wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper,except for
Teddy's.
His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper
that
he got from a grocery bag. Mrs.Thompson took pains to open it in
the
middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to
laugh
when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones
missing,
and a bottle that was one quarter fullof perfume. But she
stifled
the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the
bracelet
was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her
wrist.
Teddy
Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say,
"Mrs.
Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to."
After
the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very
day,she
quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. Instead,
she
began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention
toTeddy.
As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive.The more
she
encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of theyear,
Teddy
had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite
her
lie that she would love all the children the same,Teddy became one
of
her "teacher's pets."
A year
later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling
herthat
she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Six
years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote
that
he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was
still
the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four
years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things
hadbeen
tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it,
andwould
soon graduate from college with the highest of honors.
Heassured
Mrs.Thompson that she was still the best and favorite
teacher
he ever had in his whole life.
Then
four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he
explained
that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a
little
further. The letter explained that she was still the best and
favorite
teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer the
letter
was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.
The
story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that
spring.
Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. He
explained
that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was
wondering
if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the
wedding
that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.
Of
course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet,
the
one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was
wearing
the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their
last
Christmas together. They hugged eachother, and Dr. Stoddard
whispered
in Mrs. Thompson's ear,"Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing
in
me. Thank you somuch for making me feel important and showing me
that
I could make a difference."
Mrs.Thompson,
with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said,"Teddy,
you
have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make
a
difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."